* Read this article written on the subject of divorce and women and be ashamed of such thinking and logic. *

 * Read this article written on the subject of divorce and women and be ashamed of such thinking and logic. *

Selection: - * Chaudhry Muhammad Rafi Kamboh

 Bureau Chief Okara District

Daily Life Khanewal

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Maulvi Sahib: Explain that Islam gives a man the right to divorce, why not a woman?

Isn't a woman a human being, isn't it her rights?

I will answer your question, but first you tell me one thing ??

Yes Maulvi Sahib !!

Explain that you boarded a bus to go somewhere, rented a bus, got a ticket, sat on the seat, the journey started.

Does the bus owner have the right to drop you off somewhere on the way, in a forest, in a desert before you reach the destination ??

Absolutely not.

Fine ! Now tell me, if you want to land somewhere along the way, do you have the right to do so?

Absolutely, I can land wherever I want.

Why? Reason .??

The reason is that Maulvi Sahib has taken rent from me, so he can't land anywhere before the destination, and I can land wherever I want, he can't stop me because his job was with the rent he took from me. Is.

all right .!! Now tell me one more thing. ??

You brought a laborer for a day's work, he started work, soaked bricks, made cement, started a wall, and after laying eight or ten bricks left work and went home, what would be your reaction? ??

I will not let him go, he will get leave only if he completes the work !!

Well and if you want to finish it in the middle of work. ??

I have to pay him, I can fire him at any time.

all right .! Now listen to the answer to your question.

In all the affairs of the world, one party is the one who spends the money and the other is the one who serves for the money.

The rule of the world is that the one who spends money always has more power than the other.

When a matter is settled, the consent of both parties is required, but after the matter is settled, the person who spends the money can fire the serviceman after paying the dues, but the service provider leaves the job in between. Can't go

If the service provider is given such an option in exchange for money, the workers leave work in the afternoon and go home, the employees disappear in the middle of duty, the landlord evicts the tenant within a month The tailor will hand over your suit half-sewn and half-cut to you and refuse to do the rest of the work. The barber will cut off half of your head and kick you out of the shop.

Do you understand, Mr. ??

Yes, yes, Maulvi Sahib, I understand, but I am talking about divorce !!

That's what I'm explaining, listen !!

When a man and a woman have a pure, loving and trusting marriage, it is not a matter of business or time, it is a matter of hearts, and a matter of a lifetime, but in this too Islam gives us some rules and regulations. Gives.

One party in this matter and agreement is the man, Islam puts on him all the expenses of his wife, food, living, medical treatment, clothing, jewelry, transactions, and every need of life,

Now every responsibility of this woman's whole life is on this man,

He is responsible for its protection and honor.

He is responsible for all his needs,

Even after the death of this woman, her shroud burial has to be arranged by the same man and in case of death of the man, many inheritances of this man have to be given to the same woman.

The children born to these two spouses belong to both of them, but Islam also places the full financial responsibility of these children on the man alone.

All the financial expenses of housing, food, clothing, medical treatment, education and sports of these children are also the responsibility of men and only men.

Islam frees women completely from all these responsibilities.

Before all these responsibilities, at the time of the marriage contract, the man has to pay a huge amount to the woman in the form of Haq Mahr.

In addition to all this, Islam exhorts the man to be kind to his wife. Is,

He also promises a reward for putting a morsel in his wife's mouth by saying,

He calls it "Atqwa Allah fi Nisa" and promises Allah's wrath and punishment for harassing, harassing, beating, threatening and harassing his wife for no reason. He promises love, comfort, taking care of their needs and keeping them happy within the permissible limits and declares such people to be the best human beings.

After imposing so many responsibilities on a man, Islam places on the wife only the responsibility of serving her husband, obedience, loyalty to him, taking care of his house and children.

In this man-woman agreement, the man has every financial responsibility for the woman's whole life, so you tell yourself which of the two should have the right to divorce?

By the way, a man should have it, but ...

By the way, if a woman is also given this right, then what is the harm in it?

What's wrong Listen again

Suppose you liked the relationship of a beautiful girl, sent the relationship, talked, the relationship was settled, they demanded one lakh dowry, you accepted, the marriage took place, as soon as you handed over the dowry to her,

He said, "I will divorce you."

Divorce, divorce, divorce ...

Then in the evening she marries someone else

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After receiving the seal from him, the third, then the fourth, then what will happen to your heart, Mr. ??

Oh, just do it, Maulvi Sahib, you blew my mind, this is a terrible thing.

Not only that, Mr., go ahead, now the man who openly puts his wealth and all his heart on his wife, raises her hand, just because he considers her his forever, if in his heart Fearing that she might kick him at any moment and move on to another nest, he would think a hundred times before giving her even a grain of wheat, and not only this man's life but this woman's life forever. It will become hell !!

Got it, got it, got it

Very dangerous exchange !!

But one more thing, Maulvi Sahib, sometimes it happens and now it is happening in many families that a man does not do justice to his wife and does not spare her.

What to do in this case?

Look, Mr.! The solution and the complete solution to all these problems is the Islamic system, the same Islamic system in which people like you are constantly on the move to put obstacles in the way.

If the Islamic system is fully established and the commandments of Allah and His Messenger are respected, important and supreme on all sides, then all people will have a sense of fear of Allah, piety, passion for good and distance from evil, and these are the things that They play a role in preventing oppression, abuse and sin at every level that even the police, the army and the judiciary cannot do, but unfortunately you people spend all your energy on the same fear of God and piety. You light a fire yourself and then you come running to us to put it out. Instead of teaching your children about Allah, the Prophet, the Qur'an, the religion of Islam, you teach them movies and dramas and when they follow this lesson you When you put on your shoes, you come to us crying and asking for amulets.

Listen, my dear brother, if the Islamic system is fully implemented in the true sense, such incidents will not happen in the first place.

Even if this happens suddenly, the wife will immediately go to the Islamic court and complain to the judge about her husband's abuse, and the judge, instead of suspending the case for years or skinning it at the hands of lawyers, will immediately listen to both. Will get her right from her husband,

If in any case the husband does not give her the right or is not able to give, then he will be asked to divorce the woman and if he does not give the divorce, then the judge will send him to jail, the police will eat the umbrella. If he tastes loneliness and helplessness, he will feel the helplessness of others, otherwise he will be tormented.